I know! It has been a long time since the last time I wrote for this blog. Yeah, no new stories that I could turn into a blog or I might say, too complicated to become a blog. Now I’m in my friends’ room. I checked my mail. Happy I am to read a message from one of my dear friend. I guess you’ll be aware to the photographer dude. From the story he up dated me, it made me think, Is it normal to have a rebound crush?
It is obvious when you are breaking up with someone there should be certain percentages that it turns out you’ll need someone next to you. You need someone to ease the crazy pain. The person could be your friends, a family, or just someone randomly that happens to be in the right place in just the right time. But then from that situation, could you predict how it will turned out from the rebound game?
Imagine you use to have a cup poured and filled by love. It is being filled for a while until the love spills out from the cup. Then one crazy day, it stops pouring. Then the love in the cup runs dry. Panic comes. What happens after that? That’s when most people do; they tried to find a distraction. It’s a total different thing then moving on. However, it is one of the stone you sometimes have to step to move on. Could I say it’s a crime? Well to be honest I can’t.
Now if one of the person in the rebound game started to have a different feelings and hoping that the situation could change to a real “love me love you” situation, I might suggested: DON'T! Why?
As I said, the person that started the rebound game just needed someone to calm the situation, a hand to hold, or a shoulder to cry. I could say it is sort of a shock therapy. If you change that situation and take it to a “different road” do you really think it will work?
Well everything could happen that’s true. It’s not a crime to hope. But if you decided to go on that road, then prepare your self for the worst. When he/she moved on so you have to hold the umbrella for your rainy day. It'll hurt! But then yeah you know what the worst scene that could happen from the start. But then what happen if you went a step further, you wonder what is his/her feeling after a while you’ve been holding their hands? Now take the worst scene. What happen if he/she leaves without a 1-week notice afer you wonder?
Sorry dear buddy, if he/she leaves without any notice, I guess you can figure out by yourself what is the answer. You may have an opinion that maybe they’re just not ready for a new relationship kind of thing. But I suggested don’t even go to that place. If they do have a feeling for you they’ll let you know black and white. I like you but I’m not ready sentenced should be delivered to you in any time. They wouldn’t let you slip away. Well that’s the theory I got. there should be certain points to be concidered in the real life. But then I wonder do people now have the guts to book their next date or they will just let love slips away coz they're not sure or scared? Special message for my far away friend: You are right, see her as one of the great thing that is part of your life. But don’t stay in that hole too long. Pull your self-together, pack your bags and continue your journey. She might be not the lady to walk with you. She is just not your missing piece. You might need to wait for the right one to come. You might ask your self where is your piece? She is close by! 2 pieces that should be together wouldn’t be too far away from each other. They always find their way to be together. Whether it is planed or even by accident. Life is a ball of miracle, you'll never know what or who will be waiting just around the corner.
