I wish that someone were here next to me. It is cold outside and I wished someone were hugging me through the night. Well I can use the thing that someone invented, which we call a blanket. But wouldn’t it be nicer if your love one were hugging you? Sometime I feel sad that the one I care about is miles away from me. Distance is bugging me. But what can i say. Thank god we are not in different continent at least. But somehow it’s funny; when he is next to me sometimes I turn to this speech less woman. I can’t say a word to him. Every single word just stuck in my throat. Then I couldn’t help but wonder, is there any easy way to communicate?
It happens when you are nervous or maybe you are too scared to tell. There are many reasons for you to become a speech less person. You want to tell how you feel in words instead of an action to prove. But somehow the words just don’t come out. What would you do by that time?
It happened once. Someone that I care was next to me. I was crying. We talked about our situation. We shared what had happen when we are far away from each other. We had a sad moment (I will say) before that. Well obviously since I was crying. Anyways, I can’t say a word. There many questions i want to ask and many things i want him to know. I want to say to him how much I care for him, how much I don’t want him to go, How much I don’t want to loose him. I want to say how much he means to me. Well my tears showed the feeling. But only god knows what he was thinking while I was crying. There should be some mix messages inside that brain. And then some songs played in the background. My laptop was on and it plays all of these music’s. Somehow lucky me it’s the play list that I made for him, which some of the songs was our song. He notices. He ended up sitting close to me hug me tight. It feels comfortable and warm. He turns my tears into a smile. I remember that he asked me, “Are songs somehow change to your way to communicate?” I guess it is. I communicate with him through the songs. He answers me through the hug. It was two different ways to communicate, from two different people. Suddenly tears turns to romance. It turned to be one of my special nights with him.
I realize how much silent could be a perfect and romantic moment. It may sound cheesy for some. You may ask how come silent be a romantic moment? Aren’t we supposed to be talking with each other when you’re with your partner? Not always for me. As I said before it’s romantic. All you need in those times are the right person close to you, silent and right songs on the background. Or maybe some candles as the last touch. You can feel how much you feel comfortable with your partner. Snuggle together. mmmmm..You just enjoy each other company and travel your lovely times with them. Someday when you are in different places, countries or even continents, you and your partner can feel each other’s companionships through the songs that was shared just between you two. There are many romantic ways where you can create with your love one.
If you ask yourself when was the last time you experience a romantic moment, the answer may be “I don’t really remember when”. May i say, "Not good". It seems ages ago when a guy/girl left a note in a piece of paper and left it somewhere in your room that written “I miss you” on it or other romantic gesture that just made you fly with all your butterflies, which turns to memories that you can remember when you are away from each other. All i can say is spice it up a little bit.
But then I couldn’t help but wonder are romantic gestures still in the menu?
